What do you do when you know that death is imminent?
What do you do when your sick parent looks you in the eye and tells you he loves you?
What do you do when you are crying by his bedside and he strokes your face, never mind the shaky hands?
What do you do when you see your dad moaning in pain, asking for your help?
What do you do when you can’t help but think of all the good times you had with your dad as a child?
What do you do when you feel so sad seeing your baby pictures, where dad carries you proudly during your first birthday party?
What do you do when you know the end is near?
Can somebody tell me what to do? Coz I dont know what to do.
Even though we know its coming, it doesnt make it any easier, does it? Even though my step-mom passed away from cancer in Dec, I cant say I know what you’ve gone through because I cant. It wasnt the same. Your loss is much deeper, he was your biological father after all. I wont waste my time or yours telling you cliched things as time will heal and all that, but I will tell you this, Sh, because it is the most important: the way your father taught and nurtured you and So, do the same for Se. The goals that he had for both of you, set them also for her. I guess thats all I have to say for now. I dont want to waste your time with useless and empty words.
My prayers are with you and the family, as they always are.
HUGS. I know no words can make it any better, but you have him now and u will always have him in your memories. Tell him and show him how much you love him. A hug, a kiss on the cheek. No regrets.